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Anonymous : why do black women feel the need to wear weave?




idk maybe because of shit like this

or this



noticing a trend….

instead of asking “why black women feel the need to wear weaves” let’s ask “why black women have been made to feel that they need a weave in the first place”….

for centuries the standard of beauty has not been that of the black woman…(we all know who i’m talking about)  instead we have been pushed to ‘conform’ to those standards without any second thoughts…i mean “white is right”…right….

black women are the only group of people  who have been unmercifully criticized for the hair that grows naturally from their scalp…we have been told that our natural locs are “uncivilized’ “ugly’ undesirable’…that in order to be anywhere near beautiful we’ll have to rock straight european hair or permanently straighten our own..it’s all psychological from years and years of conforming..sadly the ideas and stigmas still have an effect on black women of today… 

it’s sad that the number of us who have gone natural are looked up to as ‘being brave’ or ‘being a leader….the fact that black women even had to “go natural” shows how much we’ve fucked up and how society has brainwashed us into believing we are less than on the beauty scale because of something God blessed us with…

what’s even more saddening, is not only do black women have to deal with the ignorance of other races not understanding our hair, but we also have to deal with the comments of black men who have fallen into the “bash black hair’ trap….the cycle never ends…

Even though the stigma behind wearing a weave is thought to be fueled by self hatred, on the complete opposite side of the spectrum some women wear weaves to better their natural hair…the elements can be SO harsh on black hair and sometimes it just needs a break. wearing a weave helps maintain hair growth while protecting it from the weather for months at a time.

Also some black women just love to change up their looks every once in awhile and they do so by wearing a weave because it’s much easier than dying, growing, or cutting their natural hair…so let them have fun expressing themselves…

in my experience, i’ve had multiple white women strictly assume that black women wear weaves to “get like them” 


nuh uh





i mean because




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this shit


Omg the last one

Booked our flights to #KCON2014 next month! Me and Kevin will both be there all weekend and hope to see as many of you who are also going as possible!
All the glorious food I’ve been eating with friends over the last few days! I’ve been a major glutton 😣 dat #patbingsu tho was so worth the extra calories!  No fucks given! #foodporn #koreandessert #ramen #carrotcake #sushi

This peace of mind, helps me focus… on things like avoiding doing homework.
Uploaded an awesome LOOKBOOK video that you guys should go watch on my channel! It was #kpop concert inspired and I collabed with @kawaiichichi so go see it😊#ootd #mystyle #cute #foreverXXI #Forever21 #highwaistedshorts #denim #fashion #outfit #coordinate #Koreanfashion #Koreanstyle





It’s worked for white people, I figured I might as well give it a shot.


I want you to go man!

if this was a white girl this would have had the notes 3 weeks ago

People are sending him racist messages telling him it’s not gonna happen and he doesn’t belong in Disney World over this post. So we’re gonna reblog it even more.

That’s not surprising. People are such negative shits online but they would never say that to his face most likely. REBLOGGING FOR HIS DREAMS!